Lung Cancer Caregiver Checklist
Sometimes, as someone looking at lung cancer from the outside, you may feel you don't know where to fit in when assisting your loved one in their time of need. However, there are some beneficial tactics to consider for extra support. The rulebook changes depending on the situation, but noting the basics makes a difference.
Practical support
Please note that being a care partner is not for the faint at heart. It can be very emotional caring for a loved one who may be going through lung cancer.
You may find yourself constantly reassuring a loved one when you feel doubtful about what is happening in real-time. It's okay to remember that the simple things matter when showing support.
If you're not sure where to start, just note that simple care makes a huge difference. It's okay to review what you can and can't do, as this may be overwhelming for both your loved one and you.
It may help to come up with a plan to accompany your loved one on a treatment visit or make an appointment. Practical support can also consist of being the eyes and ears at an appointment to ask those missed questions.
Open communication
At this time, feelings may feel strained as emotions go up and down. Your cancer loved one may be extra emotional and at some times snappy, just know it's not you. The situation may take some getting used to for everyone, and being open about emotions may reassure everyone to remember to extend grace.
Educate yourself
Many times, this cancer in particular carries a certain stigma and assumptions. It may be helpful to delve a little further into the disease and review the checks and balances on what will be needed along the way.
When you're clear on the differences between NSCLC and SCLC you can help reassure and communicate effectively on what treatment is entailed and what is needed of you to support.
Medication managementThere may be a lot going on, and making sure meds are properly managed is helpful as well. Brain fog may be a side effect that may throw a monkey wrench in focusing on this meds or that. If you can help organize with pill boxes or reminder apps to help them control them, then that could benefit immensely.
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