Welcome to the community! I concur with you have valid points and the best eyes and ears to review them with is your health team. Sometimes friends and family mean the best in suggestion, but this is where patient advocacy comes into play. It's okay to ask your doctor to fully break down everything that is happening, and fully explain the treatment in question, and why one is chosen over something else. If the doctor and others on the team can't answer clearly then of course that leaves a big question mark on their level of service, but if they are open to explain and make sure you leave out of the consultation with understanding, then that is great. The teaching moment is to share the explanation with others who feel differently in any regard wishing you the very best in your procedure, and know that more questions at this stage are absolutely okay.
Yolanda (Team Members)