I am entering year 3 with stage 1 lung cancer. I also have severe COPD. Because of the emphysema they have been unable to biopsy the nodules so don't even know what type of lung cancer I have. Surgical resection was not a treatment option so I underwent SBRT radiation therapy within weeks of my diagnosis. I watched my mom die from lung cancer so I know where this journey I am on may eventually lead me. But feel my husband and adult children are not capable of helping me if things get rough. They have already demonstrated that in their failure to maintain our home in an orderly manner and clean already. My daughter, her boyfriend and their 3 year old granddaughter live with me and my husband. Yet my husband will simply stand there watching me struggle to do routine housekeeping with many rest breaks. I don't want to be a burden but feel I already am. I am to the point of moving out on my own as the lack of support is taking a huge toll on my mental well being. I feel I am better off alone as only 1 person typically does not create a lot of messines and hiring someone to come in to clean would be a solution. I can't hire help now as 2 of the 3 adults have issues with hoarding. They get very territorial about all their stuff cluttering a once clean and tidy home. Asking for options or suggestions but do not want to be directed to an assisted living facility or senior independent living community. I have seen the set ups thru my father and his wife (both now deceased) and it is a lot of money for a whole lot of nothing.