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Initial Diagnosis: Emotions

How would you describe how you felt when you received your diagnosis? What advice would you have for someone who is on the path to a diagnosis or is at the beginning of their lung cancer journey?

  1. I remember feeling matter of fact about it initially. But your brain screams "You have cancer!" I didn't panic. Or cry. Or ask " why me?". My partner was no support. I wasn't a surgical candidate (lung cancer) but it had been caught early and I had radiation treatments. 3 months later, I had a stroke. I suggest that you have someone with you for every treatment and office visit. Don't sit there alone like I did.

    1. I can hear how difficult this is for you. Your body has been through a lot and it is understandable that it is tired and weak. Through everything you have been though, I am so glad to hear you are ok. Please feel free to come to our community whenever you need. Sending you lots of strength. Jill (Team Member)

    2. , It's been a while, and I wanted to check in with you to see how you are doing now. Have you felt any improvements? Do you have a solid support network now? Please know we're always here to share support. - Warmly, Donna (Team Member)

  2. betrayed

    1. I can only imagine what your experience has been so far. Wishing it all works out and brighter days are ahead. Best!
      Yolanda (Team Member)

    2. , betrayal is an understandable reaction. How are you doing now? - Warmly, Donna (Team Member)

  3. I was diagnosed with lung cancer after a persistent cough, shortness of breath, chest pain, fatigue, and unexpected weight loss. Tests confirmed the diagnosis, leaving me shocked and depressed. Despite the emotional struggle, I am determined to fight the disease with the support of my medical team and loved ones.

    1. I'm sure the shock of this can be overwhelming and to be expected. I agree having the support system and everyone on deck is so very important, especially if you have the support. Have you started any treatment measures as of yet? Wishing you the very best on this journey! You got this!
      Yolanda (Team Member)

    2. , It's been a little while and I just wanted to check in with you to see how you're doing. Have you experienced improvement with treatment? - Warmly, Donna (Team Member)

  4. It was as if it was just another day, like, oh well, I got lung cancer. Then I started with questions about treatment. I was eventually depressed about it. Now that I am in remission, my depression has gotten worse and I get anxiety attacks.

    1. @nuHehTalittA I'm so sorry - I think it is abhorrent that our healthcare system is allowed to make those decisions that severely affect the lives of others. Have you checked into the financial help available at https://www.lung.org/lung-health-diseases/lung-disease-lookup/lung-cancer/treatment/assistance? I don't understand doing less to help. Sending (((hugs))), Donna (Team Member)

    2. Hi Donna, thanks for the info. I will check it out again as I think I was there before. Hope my memory will be good enough to allow me to know what went on.

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